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当孩子被人欺负的时候 …… (翻译文章)  

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当孩子告诉我们有人欺负他时,我们应该怎么办呢?

先送给朋友们一个英文版,改日我再翻译。如果有人愿意代劳,不胜感激。

刚刚试着翻译了一下,肯定有翻译不妥的地方,但我想大家能够明白的。

http://www.bullying.org/htm/main.cfm?content=1059


What can you do if someone is bullying you?

Be bullied can be embarrassing, scary and very hurtful, but you should know that you don't have to put up with being bullied. It is NOT a normal part of growing up. Bullying is wrong. Bullying is something some people learn, that means it is something we can change and there are things we can do to deal with bullying. Here are some things we all can do to stop bullying:

 

·         Learn about what bullying is and then share this with others, like your parents, friends, teachers, sport coaches and others. A lot of adults believe that bullying is just a normal part of life, IT'S NOT -BE the change! And teach them that people should not just accept bullying.

·         Take the Bullying.org and Family Channel Pledge

·         You need to know that you are NOT alone in being bullied. Being bullied is embarrassing, scary and hurtful, it is normal to feel scared if you are being bullied, but being bullied is NOT normal and you shouldn't have to live with being bullied!

·         You need to know that being bullied is NOT your fault. Bullies might tell you mean things about yourself, but don't believe them. Bullies will say what ever they can to try and have power over you. Don't let them!

·         You need to know that there are lots of things you can do to help bullying stop, for yourself and for others.

  • Don’t keep it to yourself: tell an adult. If you are being bullied, it's very important to tell an adult. It's really hard to stop bullying by yourself. Parents, teachers, principals, sport coaches, Guide and Scout leaders can all help to stop bullying.
  • Write down what happened Who was bullying? Where did it happen? Who did what? Who saw it?
  • Telling is not tattling. Telling we do to help make things safer and better. Tattling is what people do when they want to get someone else in trouble on purpose.
  • Be brave When you're scared of another person, it's hard to be brave. But sometimes just acting brave is enough to stop a bully. If you act as though you're not afraid, it may be enough for a people who bully  to leave you alone.
  • Stay calm and don't act upset or angry: bullies love to get a reaction. Practice what you'll do and say the next time it happens. If you don't act upset or react the way they want you to, they may get bored and stop.
  • Ignore the people who bully. Try to ignore a bully's threats. If you can walk away, it takes a bullies power away because they want you to feel bad about yourself. Don't react. Don't let the people who bully  win!
  • If ignoring them won't work, tell the people who are bullying to stop, say "Cut it out!", "That's not funny!", "How'd you like it if someone did that to you?" Let the people who bully know that what he or she is doing is stupid and mean.  
  • Stand up, don't stand back Kids can stand up for each other by telling a people who bully to stop teasing or hurting someone else. You shouldn't try and fight the people who bully  . This almost always makes things worse. Walk up to the person being bullied, talk with them and then walk away together.
  • Refuse to join in and don't just sit back and watch. The bully wants an audience. You give bullies power when you watch. If you aren't part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
  • Be a friend Kids who are being bullied can sure use a friend.  Walk with a friend or two on the way to school or recess or lunch or wherever you think you might meet the bully. Offer to do the same for someone else who's having trouble with a bully. Look out for kids who are new to school, or those kids who always seem to be alone.
  • Join a club, a team, or a group This is a great way to make new friends. This really helps when you are new to school.
  • Don't fight back First of all it's a dangerous thing to. Secondly, it usually makes things worse for everyone. Besides, you can't bully a bully into changing the way they are acting. Stay with others, stay safe, and get help from an adult.
  • Sit or walk near an adult or friend Sit near the bus driver. Walk with a teacher or friend during recess or lunchtime.
  • Take a different path to and from school
  • What Can Be Done about Bullying? An Anti-bullying Toolkit for Kids
  • Leave at different time
  • Don't bring expensive stuff to school
  • Share your story, find help, support and information on this Web site.
  • Make sure the kid who's being bullied tells an adult. Offer to go with them if it will help.
  • If they don't want to talk to anybody, offer to talk to someone for them.
  • Involve as many people as possible, including other friends or classmates, parents, teachers, school counselors, and the principal.

 

Remember:

Treat others the way you would like to be treated. Stand up for someone when he or she needs it, and when you need it, someone will stand up for you.  Everyone has the right to be respected and the responsibility to respect others!

 

 

有人欺负你时,你应当怎么做?

被人欺负是令人窘迫,害怕和受伤害的,但是你应该知道你不应该被欺负。这不是成长中的正常事情。欺负人是错误的!欺负人是学来的,也就是说“欺负人”这种行为是可以被改变的,我们可以做很多事来改变它。

 

  • 学习什么是欺负人并和别人分享你的心得,比如你的父母,朋友,老师,教练。很多成年人认为小孩子被人欺负是正常的,告诉他们不对,那是不能被接受的。
  • bullying.org 学习
  • 不是只有你一个人被欺负。被人欺负是令人窘迫,害怕和受伤害的。当被人欺负时你觉得害怕是正常的反应,但是被人欺负是不正常的。
  • 你应该知道被人家欺负不是因为你做错了什么。他们可能会说你不好,你做错了事,但是不要相信他们。他们会胡说八道,就是为了觉得他们比你好比你强大,别让他们得逞。
  • 你应该知道,你可以做很多事情,来阻止欺负人的事情发生,为了你自己也为了别人。
  • 不要沉默不语:告诉成年人。如果你被欺负了,一定要告诉成年人。靠你自己来防止被欺负是很困难的。家长,老师,校长,教练,社工,都可以帮助你。
  • 把事情经过写下来。谁欺负你了,在哪里,他们干了什么,有谁看见了。
  • 把事情讲出来不是打小报告。把事情讲出来会帮助你,会让你更安全。而打小报告是故意给别人找麻烦。两者是不一样的。
  • 要勇敢。当你害怕别人的时候,你很难勇敢。而且有时候,只要你装的勇敢,他们就不会欺负你了。如果你看起来一点不害怕的话,可能那就足够让那些人走开了。
  • 要沉着,不要不安或者愤怒。那些人最希望看到你对他们的行为有所反应。你可以预先设想一下下次有人欺负你时你应该怎么反应。如果你很沉着,他们可能会觉得非常无趣,然后就停止了。
  • 不要理会那些欺负人的人。不要把他们的威胁当回事儿。如果你不在乎的话,他们就感觉不到他们的强大因为他们就是想让你觉得害怕,觉得自己无助和不好。不理他们,不让他们赢。
  • 如果不在乎他们并不能帮助你的话,那就告诉他们不要那样做,告诉他们你不喜欢那样。让他们知道他们这样做是不对的。
  • 站直了,别趴下!孩子们可以互相帮助,告诉那些人那样不对,但是不要同他们打架。打架总是让事情变糟。你可以同那个被欺负的人站在一起,然后一起走开。
  • 不要加入他们,也不要看着他们欺负人。那些人需要观众。当你在旁边观看的时候,他们会很兴奋会觉得自己很厉害。如果你不能帮助被欺负的人的话,也不要帮助那些人。
  • 做一个朋友应该做的事。孩子们可以互相帮助。孩子们可以一起去上学,玩儿,吃饭。帮助别人,尤其是那些新来的孩子,和那些不善于和别人打交道的孩子。
  • 千万不要跟他们打架。安全第一,打架是非常危险的。打架也通常会使事情变的更坏。而且,你也不应该欺负别人。你应该和别人在一起,待在安全的地方,请成年人帮助你。
  • 和成年人待在一起。
  • 换不同的路去学校。
  • 在不同的时间回家。
  • 不要带贵重东西去学校。
  • 把你的事情,经验讲出来。
  • 鼓励被欺负的孩子讲出来,你可以陪着他一起去。
  • 如果他自己不愿意说的话,告诉他你可以替他去说。
  • 让尽量多的人来帮助你们,同学,老师,家长,校长,都可以帮你。

 

记住:

 

己所不欲,勿施于人。我为人人,人人为我。我应敬人,人亦应敬我!

 




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